When you cried and you know how you will get over it

Yesterday while you were sleeping next to me in the morning you cried and I thought of keeping my hand on your chest as that consoles you but you continued to cry. I picked you up. It was not your ususal cry it was like you saw a bad dream and it made you feel helpless kinda crying and I held you and kissed you many times and you were so cute and you opened your eyes and saw that bad dream was not there and from between those tears a smile shone on me. And everything went away. And I felt this great love and warmth towards you. Sometimes you can identify the moments when your love grows a bit deeper and this was one of them for me. See you overcome it.

Growing up you might have moments when you would feel scared or hopeless or fear and cry but let me tell you, in all that give yourself 20 seconds of smile or 20 seconds of courage. Time it and give it to yourself. Remember you cry because you are at the edge of an experience that is giving you great fear. So it is your opportunity to grow to be independent of that fear while facing it, giving yourself that 20 seconds of objectivity will help you get over it. Life can punch you down but you will find a way to get up and everything you need is inside you.
I made you that way !


In a separate thread one day I will tell you about 2 things:
1) practicing an emotion - you practice a skill everyday for 1 hour and in a year you will master it. You practice an emotion like happiness and you will be a happy cheerful person. Try to be out of context and program yourself.

2) power of 10x - anything you struggle for give your 10 times effort to it.