16 lessons from 16 years of marriage

1) Be kind (even on tough days)
2) Nurture the other person- their friends, passion, family
3) choose friendship
4) have your own girl friends
5) strong ties with family members of everyone
6) marry someone who is responsible and ethical
7) have kids and dogs of plants - something to care about together
8) dont keep tabs on who is doing what - there will be decades u will lift the load and vice versa
9) choose to not speak everything that makes you angry- learn to let the anger pass- harsh words accumulate
10) be patient
11) have gratitude
12) priortize fitness
13) priortize yearly check ups and good health
14) one cool vacation every year
15) vacation in each others houses
16) both shld know how to cook and make it an enjoyable activity